many people say...

"you live. you learn. you move on."
and i agree. BUT, i think there are many that do not truly understand the meaning to this.

if youre finding yourself encountering problems that youve experienced before and outcomes keep repeating itself... guess what? you probably didnt learn what was needed to be learned.... so you havent moved on. why do you think the same situations keep coming up again?

so...
you live. you learn. you move on.
but if you havent learned... you havent moved on.