This is the problem...... Guys!

that was my facebook post today.

now before you start thinking im sexist or that im just being mad at the world.... let me explain the meaning behind my post. Of course this is all from my own personal female perspective of guys and relationships. (some may agree...some may disagree)

There are three different Males.
1. Boys- the youngest of the three and hasnt reached true maturity. the newbie. "this is my boyfriend. ;]"

2. Guys- just like "the middle child". the one still finding himself. sometimes he wanders off and comes back... and sometimes he just continues to wander. "im dating this guy. well.. i think were dating"

3. Men- the eldest and the matured one. "the one." "the Man of the House" "one woman man"

now back to my post.

the problem isnt the Boys because we all know that they just started the growth spurt; trying to learn ways in life and relationships. everyone deserves that start.

the problem arent the Men either. if you really considered yourself as a Man then you would be mature enough to do what's right. If something was done wrong, the Man would know to fix it the best way he can cuz hes "been there done that".

Now lets take the Guy. The transition from Boyhood to Manhood. Have you heard of Guyhood? I dont think so. This Guyhood is something just floating in the air. Its a period in time where the guy tries to find himself. Questions/Thoughts begin to boggle their mind.... Is this the right girl for me?  Should I date around? I need to be single. I need to date different girls. Oh no this is getting serious. I dont want commitment. and Then OUCH! The female gets heart broken. The female hates the guy. "Guys Suck!"... right? On the females side, if she has learned her lesson, she now knows better than to take the guy back UNLESS she knows hes ready to be a Man for her; OR she can also choose to move on and find someone thats already a Man. A Man that has passed this imaginary stage of Guyhood that doesnt even exist, according to dictionary.com..

yep, go ahead and search it
1. boyhood: the state or period of being a boy
2. guyhood- no dictionary results
3. manhood: the state or time of being a man or adult male person; male maturity.

did i make any sense?

to females: if youre single and dont want to get hurt again... dont fall too easily for just ANY guy that comes your way. look/fall for a man. someone that knows who he is already and what he wants in life. there are some girls out there patient enough to stick through their boyfriends "guyhood" and wait for him to come back a Man... if you can do that then good for you. if you take him back as STILL a guy.. then remember, dont have any regrets, because that was your decision not his.

heres a funny comic. enjoy.

note: there are also 3 females- Girls, Ladies, Women..

but its more fun to give my view of the opposite sex than my own. haha.